Have you ever wanted something, but thought it was too late…that you missed your chance? Have you ever had an opportunity, but didn’t take advantage of it. Have you ever felt you tried and failed so many times that you just can’t try again?
I have felt all of those things at one time or another, but I have also learned that it is never too late to do what you should have done, have what you could have had, or be what you would have been.
You have to go beyond “if only” thinking if you want to live an exciting and fulfilling life. You must give up your shoulda, woulda, coulda mentality. The past is over. We can’t do anything about it. We have right now and the future. Don’t let habitual thinking cause you to get in your own way of having a positive future. You will probably have to step out of your comfort zone. Experiencing some discomfort is necessary as change never seems to occur without it. Be spontaneous and take a risk.
Don’t sell yourself short. Be willing to acknowledge that you may have some incorrect perceptions about yourself, your abilities, and the expectations of others. You are your most valuable asset. W. Clement Stone, American bestselling author and founder of Combined Insurance Company said, “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” What do you believe? Is it over or is there still time to achieve your dreams? What dreams can you conceive?
In which direction do you want to put your energies…into your same old rut or taking a new path. Break the destructive pattern of letting life pass you by. Once you understand it’s never too late, you can reclaim the dreams of your past, breathe new life into dreams which have been “on hold,” or dream new dreams.
Judi Moreo is a keynote speaker, creativity coach, and the author of “You Are More Than Enough: Every Woman’s Guide to Purpose, Passion, and Power.” She can be contacted at judi@judimoreo.com or 702-896-2228.
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