Do you want to be more successful, but you just don't know what you want or what you need to do? Are you just a little lost? No problem. It's as easy as changing your thoughts. If you are going to be more successful, you ust change any negative thoughts that you may be having
Most of us were taught we should be concerned about what others think about us and should seek their approval for all that we do. We sometimes hear a little voice in our head that actually says, "What will they think?" or "If you fail, you'll look like a fool." I bet you can look
The secret to getting what you want is to believe it is possible. But how do you believe if you are unsure? First, find out everything you can about what it is you want to try. Do your research. Find out what parts might be easy, what might be hard, what might be good, and
Yes, you owe it to yourself to express your uniqueness. When you do this on a consistent basis, you will feel more complete. There's no one else exactly like you. You are one very special individual who was created to be who you are…doing the best you can each day to get the best results
Do you criticize yourself? Do you say mean and disrespectful things to you? Do you look at yourself and think nasty things about who and what you are? STOP IT! Stop talking to yourself in a negative voice. And, stop talking to others about your negative traits. The more you concentrate on what's wrong with
My dad was a successful salesman. He carried a little spiral notebook with his appointments, notes to himself, important names and numbers. One day, he dropped the notebook on the floor and when it fell open, I saw it had gold stars pasted on most of the pages. I asked him why a grown man
Are you a person who needs things to be perfect? Do you try to have a perfectly clean house, perfectly spotless car, perfect kids, perfect spouse, perfect hair style, perfect wardrobe? Does absolutely everything of yours need to be perfect? If so, you are not only putting a lot of pressure on yourself, you are
Let's face it! Life is not always easy, and for some of us, depression very often takes over, We get depressed when we are discouraged or disappointed in ourselves or our lives. We start to feel as though we can't live up to the expectations of others....or even our own expectations. We feel inadequate to
When I was a child, I had a favorite cousin, Bobbie. She was pretty, smart, kind, and really fun to be around. We always looked forward to spending time together. As we grew older, we lived in different cities and didn't get to see each other so often. I lived closer to my grandmother than
Most of our beliefs about ourselves have come from outside sources: people, education, and experiences. Many of us have allowed the opinions of others to become our opinions of ourselves. We've listened to people tell us things about ourselves and then we've internalized, processed, and believed what they have told us. If they told us
